Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony (Cuckold Wedding Serv
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Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony
(by [email protected])
THE CEREMONY
Background
The wife decides that she would like to celebrate and make official her status as a cuckolding wife. Based upon the manner in which she lives the cuckold lifestyle there are several options open to her. The cuckolding ceremony should parallel a standard marriage ritual with some important and obvious differences.
The cuckold ceremony should only be used by couples actively in the lifestyle. The event should be held as a celebration of the wife’s sexual freedom and the husband’s submission and devotion to his wife’s pleasure.
Preparation
It is important that the Cuckolding Affirmation follow many of the traditions of a standard marriage or vow renewal ceremony. The wife should carefully consider and plan all of the details ahead of time so she can relax and enjoy the happy event. The cuckold husband should play a major role in the planning and preparation of a ceremony in accordance with his wife’s wishes.
If the ceremony is very detailed it might be advisable to have a rehearsal shortly before the actual ceremony.
Location
The best and most convenient place to hold the ceremony would generally be in the couple’s home.
Guests
As part of the celebration a small number of guests should be included. These guests should be either cuckolding wives or couples for obvious reasons. They would be present to witness the ceremony, support the wife and help her celebrate.
Some guests may want to hide their identity from the cuckold husband or the wife’s studs because of their job or standing in the community. These guests would wear a stylish mask of some kind over their faces.
Leading
The ceremony should be lead by a woman that is knowledgeable of cuckold related issues. This woman could also help the wife and her husband plan the ceremony details.
Cuckold Party
The ceremony would obviously include the wife and her cuckold husband. Based on the wife’s preference the following scenarios could be used;
• The wife and husband are joined by several of her regular studs.
• The wife and husband are joined only by her primary (only) stud. The primary stud would also be considered the “Best Man”.
• The wife and husband stand together, none of her studs are present.
• There can be a maid or maiden of honor if the wife chooses. This woman could hold some things used in the ceremony.
• Another cuckold husband could serve as the “Ring Bearer” if desired or the “rings” could just be kept on a small table until they are needed.
Ceremony Dress
The wife could wear her original wedding gown if she so desires. She could also elect to just wear her bridal veil and wear a short tight fitting dress instead. If the wife wants to flaunt her sexuality she can wear something very sheer and revealing. The wife should also wear one old fashion slip-on garter for possible use later on.
The husband and wife’s studs can be dressed or undress as she chooses. If the husband is a cuckold due small penis size the wife could have him and her studs naked or in thongs that would make it clear to everyone why the husband is a cuckold and what the wife gets to enjoy outside their marriage.
Start of the Ceremony
The woman leading would call for everyone’s attention and announce that the gathering is being held as a celebration of Tammy's official status as a cuckolding wife. She would then ask the couple if they are ready to proceed. The wife would affirm their intent to proceed with the ceremony.
The woman would ask the couple: “Tammy and Adam are you ready to assert and demonstrate your deep love and commitment to one another here to today?”
The couple each answers “Yes”
The woman would say “Tammy please kiss your husband." The wife would give her husband a deep kiss. This would signify their bond together as a couple.
Vows
The wife and husband should write the “vows” to be used at the ceremony. Here possible the wife’s primary stud may assist in writing part of the vows. The vows should affirm the wife’s right at having sex outside the marriage and the husband’s pledge to remain faithful to her. Each vow should reflect the wife’s interests and cuckolding style.
Woman (leading): “Do you Tammy declare your rights and freedoms as a cuckolding wife here today?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy take Adam as your cuckold husband to cherish and control?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “To tease, frustrate and deny him as a cuckold wimp should be?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy promise to pursue and use other men as studs and to enjoy yourself with anyone you desire?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: Do you Tammy promise to let your cuckold watch you with your studs or tell him every detail of how they please you?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy promise to be a good slut?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to accept being Tammy's faithful cuckold in body, mind and spirit freely and without hesitation?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you accept the position of cuckold husband with the understanding that Tammy has complete freedom to have sex with whoever she wants while you must remain completely faithful to her?"
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to love and support Tammy's extra-marital affairs be they long-term, short-term or one-night stands?"
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you acknowledge the fact that sexually you cannot provide <wife’s name> with all of the sexual pleasure she deserves?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to help find competent studs for your wife Tammy that will provide her with the sexual pleasure you cannot?"
Husband: “I do”
The vows should be tailored to suit the couples and primarily the wife’s interests. If controlling her husband’s orgasm were important to her then one or more vows on this topic should be included.
Rings
One or more rings should be used in the ceremony. To denote the wife’s status as a cuckoldress a thumb ring and/or toe ring can be used. The female leader should direct the placement of the rings and announce their significance in the wife’s marriage.
The thumb ring can signify the wife’s sexual freedom and could be put on her by her stud or husband.
The toe ring should be put on by the husband while he kneels before his wife. This ring signifies the husband’s devotion and submission to his wife making and keeping him a cuckold. After placing the ring on his wife’s toe the husband should reverently kiss her foot. The husband should remain kneeling for the remainder of the ceremony.
If the wife desires she could accept a ring or other jewelry in a previously pierced nipple. This could be placed by either her husband or her stud.
For the husband the wife could slip and secure a leather collar around his neck. If the husband is nude or nearly so the wife could place and lock a chastity harness around his cock if one is not already there. She should also attach (or be displaying) the key to the lock onto a necklace she is wearing.
The Kiss
With the vows recited and the rings ritual complete the woman leading the ceremony would declare the wife free to pursue all of her sexual interests while her husband remains her faithful cuckold.
She then says “Tammy you may kiss your studs."
The wife gives each of her studs in attendance a deep full mouth kiss. She then would extend her rump out for her husband. Each stud might grope or fondle the wife. The wife should pre-arrange this with her studs before the ceremony.
The woman leader would invite the husband to give his wife a “cuckold kiss”.
The cuckold husband, still kneeling would plant a reverent kiss on each of her ass cheeks. If she wants the wife could have her cuckold kiss her crotch instead of (or in addition) to kissing her ass.
The ceremony is then complete
Affirmation Anniversary
Each year from then on, much like their wedding anniversary, the couple should celebrate the anniversary of their Cuckold Affirmation in some way. These celebrations can be simple or elaborate and mirror the couple’s commitment to the cuckold lifestyle.
Couples that have used this ceremony have reported subtle but beneficial changes in their marriage afterward. The wives often say they are more confident in their marriages and in their chosen lifestyle.
Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony
(by [email protected])
THE CEREMONY
Background
The wife decides that she would like to celebrate and make official her status as a cuckolding wife. Based upon the manner in which she lives the cuckold lifestyle there are several options open to her. The cuckolding ceremony should parallel a standard marriage ritual with some important and obvious differences.
The cuckold ceremony should only be used by couples actively in the lifestyle. The event should be held as a celebration of the wife’s sexual freedom and the husband’s submission and devotion to his wife’s pleasure.
Preparation
It is important that the Cuckolding Affirmation follow many of the traditions of a standard marriage or vow renewal ceremony. The wife should carefully consider and plan all of the details ahead of time so she can relax and enjoy the happy event. The cuckold husband should play a major role in the planning and preparation of a ceremony in accordance with his wife’s wishes.
If the ceremony is very detailed it might be advisable to have a rehearsal shortly before the actual ceremony.
Location
The best and most convenient place to hold the ceremony would generally be in the couple’s home.
Guests
As part of the celebration a small number of guests should be included. These guests should be either cuckolding wives or couples for obvious reasons. They would be present to witness the ceremony, support the wife and help her celebrate.
Some guests may want to hide their identity from the cuckold husband or the wife’s studs because of their job or standing in the community. These guests would wear a stylish mask of some kind over their faces.
Leading
The ceremony should be lead by a woman that is knowledgeable of cuckold related issues. This woman could also help the wife and her husband plan the ceremony details.
Cuckold Party
The ceremony would obviously include the wife and her cuckold husband. Based on the wife’s preference the following scenarios could be used;
• The wife and husband are joined by several of her regular studs.
• The wife and husband are joined only by her primary (only) stud. The primary stud would also be considered the “Best Man”.
• The wife and husband stand together, none of her studs are present.
• There can be a maid or maiden of honor if the wife chooses. This woman could hold some things used in the ceremony.
• Another cuckold husband could serve as the “Ring Bearer” if desired or the “rings” could just be kept on a small table until they are needed.
Ceremony Dress
The wife could wear her original wedding gown if she so desires. She could also elect to just wear her bridal veil and wear a short tight fitting dress instead. If the wife wants to flaunt her sexuality she can wear something very sheer and revealing. The wife should also wear one old fashion slip-on garter for possible use later on.
The husband and wife’s studs can be dressed or undress as she chooses. If the husband is a cuckold due small penis size the wife could have him and her studs naked or in thongs that would make it clear to everyone why the husband is a cuckold and what the wife gets to enjoy outside their marriage.
Start of the Ceremony
The woman leading would call for everyone’s attention and announce that the gathering is being held as a celebration of Tammy's official status as a cuckolding wife. She would then ask the couple if they are ready to proceed. The wife would affirm their intent to proceed with the ceremony.
The woman would ask the couple: “Tammy and Adam are you ready to assert and demonstrate your deep love and commitment to one another here to today?”
The couple each answers “Yes”
The woman would say “Tammy please kiss your husband." The wife would give her husband a deep kiss. This would signify their bond together as a couple.
Vows
The wife and husband should write the “vows” to be used at the ceremony. Here possible the wife’s primary stud may assist in writing part of the vows. The vows should affirm the wife’s right at having sex outside the marriage and the husband’s pledge to remain faithful to her. Each vow should reflect the wife’s interests and cuckolding style.
Woman (leading): “Do you Tammy declare your rights and freedoms as a cuckolding wife here today?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy take Adam as your cuckold husband to cherish and control?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “To tease, frustrate and deny him as a cuckold wimp should be?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy promise to pursue and use other men as studs and to enjoy yourself with anyone you desire?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: Do you Tammy promise to let your cuckold watch you with your studs or tell him every detail of how they please you?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you Tammy promise to be a good slut?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to accept being Tammy's faithful cuckold in body, mind and spirit freely and without hesitation?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you accept the position of cuckold husband with the understanding that Tammy has complete freedom to have sex with whoever she wants while you must remain completely faithful to her?"
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to love and support Tammy's extra-marital affairs be they long-term, short-term or one-night stands?"
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you acknowledge the fact that sexually you cannot provide <wife’s name> with all of the sexual pleasure she deserves?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “Adam do you promise to help find competent studs for your wife Tammy that will provide her with the sexual pleasure you cannot?"
Husband: “I do”
The vows should be tailored to suit the couples and primarily the wife’s interests. If controlling her husband’s orgasm were important to her then one or more vows on this topic should be included.
Rings
One or more rings should be used in the ceremony. To denote the wife’s status as a cuckoldress a thumb ring and/or toe ring can be used. The female leader should direct the placement of the rings and announce their significance in the wife’s marriage.
The thumb ring can signify the wife’s sexual freedom and could be put on her by her stud or husband.
The toe ring should be put on by the husband while he kneels before his wife. This ring signifies the husband’s devotion and submission to his wife making and keeping him a cuckold. After placing the ring on his wife’s toe the husband should reverently kiss her foot. The husband should remain kneeling for the remainder of the ceremony.
If the wife desires she could accept a ring or other jewelry in a previously pierced nipple. This could be placed by either her husband or her stud.
For the husband the wife could slip and secure a leather collar around his neck. If the husband is nude or nearly so the wife could place and lock a chastity harness around his cock if one is not already there. She should also attach (or be displaying) the key to the lock onto a necklace she is wearing.
The Kiss
With the vows recited and the rings ritual complete the woman leading the ceremony would declare the wife free to pursue all of her sexual interests while her husband remains her faithful cuckold.
She then says “Tammy you may kiss your studs."
The wife gives each of her studs in attendance a deep full mouth kiss. She then would extend her rump out for her husband. Each stud might grope or fondle the wife. The wife should pre-arrange this with her studs before the ceremony.
The woman leader would invite the husband to give his wife a “cuckold kiss”.
The cuckold husband, still kneeling would plant a reverent kiss on each of her ass cheeks. If she wants the wife could have her cuckold kiss her crotch instead of (or in addition) to kissing her ass.
The ceremony is then complete
Affirmation Anniversary
Each year from then on, much like their wedding anniversary, the couple should celebrate the anniversary of their Cuckold Affirmation in some way. These celebrations can be simple or elaborate and mirror the couple’s commitment to the cuckold lifestyle.
Couples that have used this ceremony have reported subtle but beneficial changes in their marriage afterward. The wives often say they are more confident in their marriages and in their chosen lifestyle.
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